Just call her Lu.
Luvilla Marie Maurer was born on Sept. 18,
1952, in Hood River, Ore., to Henry and Gladys Adkins-Maurer.
She was brought home to the family farm in Parkdale, where she
quickly came to be known as “Lu” or “Louie.”
Born several years after her older brothers
and sisters Ronnie, Dorris, Portia and Grant, Lu was the baby of
the family. However, that never stopped her from jumping right
in when there was work to be done. In fact, baby Louie became
quite the tomboy at home, and rarely missed a chance to go
hunting with her dad or help her brothers with the farm chores.
She was taught to ride a horse at a very
early age, and soon cultivated a love of horses that would last
her entire life. The warm memories she had of her first horse,
Babe, a beautiful Palomino, never faded. But though she loved to
get her hands dirty outside, there were other pastimes she
discovered in her girlhood, especially music.
With a name like Maurer, her family’s German
heritage could not be denied. In the spirit of that heritage, Lu
played the accordion and danced the polka. She also played the
piano very well, and danced to any music that moved her, but
over the years she never forgot how she loved to polka with her
dad, and recalled dancing barefoot with him until there were
blisters on her feet.
Having graduated from Wy’east High School in
1970, Lu had grown into a friendly, fun-loving, feminine young
woman with ambitions of becoming a beautician. So, she did just
that. Between visits with her sister Portia in Seattle and trips
to Portland with her girlfriends, she completed beauty school
and found work as a hairdresser in Hood River.
Throughout her life she made excellent use of
this education, owning and operating both the Cascade Locks Hair
Boutique (which she and Rick started from scratch in 1975) of
Cascade Locks, Ore., and then the Shear Shop of Moscow, Idaho.
Even when she was not running her own business, Lu enjoyed doing
hair and nails, and developed a particular fondness for
providing her services to the elderly, hairdressing for
residents at facilities like the Moscow Care Center.
In 1972 Luvilla married Rick Gurwell, who
would be the father of her three children. Their romance was
born of shared passions such as music (especially Elvis
Presley), which they listened to at least every Sunday; animals,
outdoor activities like three-wheeling, snowmobiling, and
visiting the coast, and frequent get-togethers with family and
friends.
In the 16 years of their marriage they lived
first in Hood River, where they had their first daughter,
Karriana, then moved to Moscow, Idaho, the birthplace of their
second and third children, Kathryn and Grant. Doctors had long
expected that childbearing would be difficult if not impossible
for her, so she saw each of her three children as heaven-sent.
She would have done anything she could for any one of them, and
despite the fact that she never thought it was enough, she
always gave them her very best.
One of the most difficult choices she ever
made was the decision to leave Rick, and though their marriage
did not last, it remained a full and memorable period of her
life.
To Lu, “home” meant any place where she had
friends and family. After her divorce, she did hair in Longview,
Wash., where she established another home for herself. With her
warm, easy laugh and friendly demeanor she soon developed a
close circle of friends there.
Lu remarried in the 1990s, taking the name
Bettencourt. Though she traveled around quite a bit with her
second husband (whom she eventually divorced), living in a
handful of small towns in Oregon, southern Washington and
central California, she always came back to Longview.
Her belief in working hard dictated that no
matter where she lived, Lu always found ways to keep herself
busy. When she wasn’t working overtime at more than one job, she
devoted herself to either the extracurricular activities of her
kids and grandkids (she attended every game, match, or
performance she could, and was never shy about cheering her kids
on from the stands), or her own creative pursuits.
She loved to bake, and Lu’s pies were
competition-worthy. She also had a most skillful hand at
crocheting and knitting. She made everything, from king-sized
quilts made of hundreds of finely crocheted squares, to
sweaters, hats and handbags, to rugs and valances, to delicate
Christmas ornaments and doll dresses. Nearly everything she
made, she gave away to the many people she loved.
Despite a life of hard work, Lu always knew
how to have fun, how to laugh. She loved funny movies, music and
dancing, sharing meals and watching football with her family
(her team was the Seahawks), bowling, riding horses and going to
rodeos.
She loved visiting her sister, Portia, and
brother-in-law, Stan, in Camano, Island, Wash.; she loved taking
the train with Portia to visit their brother, Grant, and
sister-in-law, Lois, in Myrtle Creek, Ore. She loved going with
Portia to get a mocha at their favorite coffee stand, and going
fishing with Grant.
She loved autumn in the Northwest, sharing
butterhorns with her kids, and doing hair for little old ladies
and gentlemen. She loved every dog she ever had, most recently
Tia and Pepsi. She loved goofing off with friends and family.
She loved her family. She loved anything that made her laugh.
Basically, Lu loved to live.
Lu never lost her talent for hairdressing,
but she found a second calling when she started care giving in
the early 1990s. She had always known a fondness for the
elderly, so it was only natural that jobs such as managing small
residential care facilities eventually led her to become a C.N.A.
As though they were her own family, she cared
for the residents and coworkers wherever she went, but one
facility in particular had a special place in her heart. She
worked at the Woodland Rehabilitation Center of Woodland, Wash.,
for several years. There, she had been affectionately called
Lu-Bell, and was loved by staff and resident alike for her
down-to-earth, light-hearted, hard-working personality.
She was thrilled to return to Woodland and
Woodland Rehab after more than a year away, and the very morning
she came back to work was the last morning she knew. The beloved
facility that was like home to her was where she took her last
footsteps, drank her last cup of coffee, and laughed her last
laugh.
Luvilla Marie Maurer-Gurwell-Bettencourt
passed away Thursday, Dec. 20, 2007, at the young age of 55. She
took her last few breaths in the loving arms of her three
children.
She is survived by her dear sister and
brother-in-law, Portia and Stan Wilkes of Camano Island; her
dear brother and sister-in-law, Grant and Lois Maurer of Myrtle
Creek; her beloved children, Kori Lyon and her fiancé, Bob
DeCamp, of Longview, Kathryn Gurwell and her fiancé, William
Joersz, of Portland, Ore., and Grant Gurwell and his fiancé,
Kila Hinton, of Everett, Wash.; her seven wonderful
grandchildren, Matt, Brittany, Jordan, Zachary, Chelsea, Shyane
and little Shaun, whom she called Hank; several loving nieces,
nephews, cousins and close friends; and her little old Shih Tzu,
Tia. Her passing reunites her with her mother and father, her
siblings, Ronnie and Dorris, and her cherished dog, Pepsi, who
all preceded her in death.
Her interment will be private, but a
celebration of life service will be held at the Woodland
Rehabilitation Center at a later date. Contact Kori at (360)
957-0224, or Katie at (503) 807-9930 for further information.
Remembrances may be made to Emergency Shelter Groups of Cowlitz
County (360-425-1176).
Joe Wilbur Brookover, affectionately known as
Will, passed away Dec. 31, 2007, at Ashley Manor of Hood River,
Ore. He was born July 1, 1912, in Shawnee, Okla., to Campbell C.
and Edith (Coffin) Brookover. His birth was followed by six
girls.
The family moved to Petaluma, Calif., in 1925
where they operated a chicken ranch. Will graduated from
Petaluma High School and went to work for McPhail Fuel Company
where he worked through World War II as his job was considered
necessary for fueling the ships involved in the war effort.
Will married Mary Belle Graham in 1937 and
they had three daughters, Marcia, Susan and Mary Jo. He retired
from McPhail Fuel in 1970.
After retiring he moved to Hawaii where he
lived in Pahoa for 25 years. He enjoyed square dancing and
growing flowers, trees and vegetables. His favorite tree was the
Royal Palm. Will moved to Hood River in 2000.
Will is survived by his three daughters,
Marcia Berkhover, of San Diego, Calif., Susan Brookover of
Ulapalakua, Hawaii, and Mary Jo Bartlett, of Mt. Hood, Ore.; and
three grandchildren, Susan Brittain, Ginger Sadlier and Sean
Sadlier.
Masonic funeral rites will be performed at 11
a.m. Thursday, Jan. 3, at Anderson’s Tribute Center. Graveside
rites will follow at Idlewilde Cemetery of Hood River, Ore.
Arrangements are under the direction of Anderson’s Tribute
Center (Funerals, Receptions, Cremations), 1401 Belmont Ave.,
Hood River, OR 97031; (541) 386-1000;
www.andersonstributecenter.com.