As we settle into the long holiday weekend, it’s important to remember what Memorial Day is all about.
    Historically, communities have disagreed over
  the origins of Memorial Day. Towns in some eastern states make conflicting claims as the “first” to observe the spring day of remembrance.

It is not important who was the very first; what matters is that Memorial Day was established. Memorial Day is not about division; it is about reconciliation. It is about coming together to honor those who gave their all.

As a national observance, Memorial Day was officially proclaimed on May 5, 1868, by General John Logan, national commander of the Grand Army of the Republic, and was first observed on May 30, 1868, when flowers were placed on the graves of Union and Confederate soldiers at Arlington National Cemetery. It is now celebrated in almost every state on the last Monday in May (passed by Congress with the National Holiday Act of 1971).

History can show us the commemoration’s origins, and Congress can tell us when to officially celebrate, but it is up to each of us to determine how to mark this solemn day.

It is reasonable to spend the weekend at leisure or as a mini-vacation, with family or as a respite from work.

But along the way it is fitting to give honor, even for a moment, to the men and women who have fallen in service to their country, and for those who, as we speak, are sacrificing for our nation.

Flags at public institutions will fly at half-mast on Monday, by order of Gov. Ted Kulongoski, who  stated: “Last month, I was deeply honored to welcome home thousands of soldiers who have returned to Oregon following the largest deployment of our National Guard since World War II. I ask all Oregonians to reflect on their service and all others who are currently serving our country at home and abroad. As we keep those soldiers currently serving in our thoughts and prayers, we should also take a moment on this day to honor all of those who have served before them and made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom.”

Should you choose to devote part of your day to the Hood River ceremony at Idlewilde Cemetery, keep in mind that the service will begin later than in the past. This year it begins at 11 a.m. (Details on page A7). Idlewilde is located on the Heights, at Brookside and Tucker roads.

The American Legion, Idlewilde and community groups work hard to organize the service, always a heartfelt one that truly honors veterans and their families.